Hai, new year eve might have passed and another resolution of yours already hung on the walls, but let me wish a verry happy new year to all of yaaa! I believe, we all are given a wonderful 365 days in 2015, we’ve also learned manythings through many emotions, and i surely believe, God has prepared amazing journey for us in this year, just keep believing!
Well, talking about last year’s journey, i remember one of the most unforgetable moment i’ve ever had, maybe, that’s when i finally came to Solo for the very first time after SBMPTN test.
Well, talking about last year’s journey, i remember one of the most unforgetable moment i’ve ever had, maybe, that’s when i finally came to Solo for the very first time after SBMPTN test.
Back then, i was afraid of going back to that city, i was just too much worrying about what would it be if i was there. I didn’t exactly know the reason but it kept blocking me to fully feel happy, there were always some feelings that led me to feel sorry. Sometime, that feelings continued transforming into another feelings, made my step heavier than usual, but my other-side kept asking me to go there. Day by day, after i got my mind cleared, i finally got some power and jjang! I’m now having Solo as my third city of my life, after Pekalongan and Semarang ofc.
What about yours? Lets do some throwback together! Don’t worry! Throwing back isn’t symbol of your weaknesess, dude. A friend of mine once said that we have to look back sometime, to do self-introspection and not to get trapped on the same mistake. The case will be different if you can’t handle it, it will surely be your boomerang later. So, how’s it? What kind of unforgetable moments that come to your mind first? A happiness moment? Or sadness tragedy? I’m sure enough it comes for some reasons, it’s teaching you more about life than another, am i rite?
Okay, after we did some throwback and got the unforgetable moments replayed, lets imagine the future! Hmm, it will be better if i replace “imagine” and put “design” there, because imagining something will be such a waste of time if we don’t design our plan to make that something come true. We don’t need to wait anymore, lets design our future! At least, design all things that you wanna do in this year. Then, i call that designing-result as the masterplan of our resolutions, you have to name that masterplan ofc.
Why do you call it “masterplan”? Because every resolutions always have one important point or important plan that you have to fight for in this year. That important plan then give impact to another plans, determine the progress of your resolutions in the end of this year. And the title or theme of my resolutions’s masterplan in this 2016 is Mind and Heart Synchronization.
Mind And Heart Synchronization
Hey, wassap? Why it should be about heart again? Do you have that kind of heart that really need reparation every year? Well, calm down, dude! We aren’t gonna talk about my heart or another kegaulauan that once have driven me nuts. I personally don’t wanna spent my time just to think about that matters anymore. That’s why, my theme in this year has “synchronization” instead of “controlling”, because i believe when i synchronize both my mind and heart, they will move in a harmony, rite? Wewww prokk prokk prokk!
Do you know how to do that, Na? Well, It’s really hard to make your mind and heart get its line of balance. They two aren’t the same, but they aren’t completely separated and there must be a way to synchronize them. The main key is placing them in the right way, at the right time. Don’t ever get into your heart too much and don’t ever lose your mind! Remember one thing, you just learn how to use your heart less, not to become heartless!
In fact, doing what has been written above isn’t that easy, especially for those who are typically sensitive, baperan, and me be like, “Aihh, i’m totally one of them!” That’s why i’ve made up my mind, i have to try synchronizing my heart and my mind, because i don’t wanna waste my time to get into that feelings anymore #ifyouknowwhatimean. I personally don’t mind having that kind of feelings, i’m just afraid of being destructed or loosing myself someday. So typically i am, rite? don’t wanna talk about feelings, but unconsciously write what’s inside the heart, hahaha.
After doing a very simple research, these ala kadarnya yet a wholeheartedly-made conclucion was finally found and i call it Five way of getting fully synchronized.
That’s it! My homework this year is implementing those conclucions, trying my best and always being the very best version of myself. How about yours? Don’t let last years’s failure stop your move! Well, a friend of mine once said that synchronizing your mind and heart is a part of maturity process, and all i have to do is enjoying the process, while trying my best ofc.
Warm regard,
Do you know how to do that, Na? Well, It’s really hard to make your mind and heart get its line of balance. They two aren’t the same, but they aren’t completely separated and there must be a way to synchronize them. The main key is placing them in the right way, at the right time. Don’t ever get into your heart too much and don’t ever lose your mind! Remember one thing, you just learn how to use your heart less, not to become heartless!
In fact, doing what has been written above isn’t that easy, especially for those who are typically sensitive, baperan, and me be like, “Aihh, i’m totally one of them!” That’s why i’ve made up my mind, i have to try synchronizing my heart and my mind, because i don’t wanna waste my time to get into that feelings anymore #ifyouknowwhatimean. I personally don’t mind having that kind of feelings, i’m just afraid of being destructed or loosing myself someday. So typically i am, rite? don’t wanna talk about feelings, but unconsciously write what’s inside the heart, hahaha.
After doing a very simple research, these ala kadarnya yet a wholeheartedly-made conclucion was finally found and i call it Five way of getting fully synchronized.
- Smile often! Begin and end your day with a smile, don’t forget to start everything by saying basmalah, because God is always watching us.
- Share often! People who enjoy sharing is way much happier than those who don’t. By sharing, you will know many problems which were carried by others and it will help you to stop comparing your life to them. It will also raise the level of your heart, because your heart won’t focus on someone, it will be focused on sharing, giving and caring about others. In other side, you will be more competitive in reaching your goals, because you have been told many experiences, many achieevments and many inspirational stories by others.
- Be busy with your day so that you don’t have any spare time to think about someone. Fill your day with many positive activities, stay around those who will always give you reason to keep upgrading yourself and make your move!
- Stay closer to your God! Be responsible with your life! Start managing your time! Make sure, do good as much as you can and spread kindness!
- Travelling more often!
That’s it! My homework this year is implementing those conclucions, trying my best and always being the very best version of myself. How about yours? Don’t let last years’s failure stop your move! Well, a friend of mine once said that synchronizing your mind and heart is a part of maturity process, and all i have to do is enjoying the process, while trying my best ofc.
Warm regard,
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